[英语]The flame of love [复制链接]

The flame of love

拥有了一份好的工作、一个好的身体、一笔大大的财富，但你仍然感受不到幸福快乐？这是为什么？答案只有一个字，爱。没有爱的人生好比没有灵魂的躯体。

爱给予了生活的意义。幸运的人得到爱并能让那爱的火花永远燃烧，这不是一天或几个月的事。爱是生活，生活也是爱。

Suppose you have everything; a good job, good health, good reputation, good relationships and lot of money to spend. But still there is something missing from your life. Guess what? The LOVE. It is not something which you should ignore. Life without love is just like body without soul.

Love gives meaning to life as without love life is meaningless. Lucky is the person who gets love and keeps the flames of love burning for ever. It is not a matter of days or months. Love is for life and life is for love.

Short term love encounters are not helpful at all. Be sincere with your body and soul. Indulge in serious life long loving relationship and live a healthy, happy and joyful life.
It is easy to fell in love but difficult to keep the flames of love burning. Before indulging in serious long term love relationships be sure that the person you love is also sincere with you. A selfish person can make your life miserable. If this is the case with you then try to get rid of that person as soon as possible.

Most people do not give importance to their love life as they give importance to their professional life. In most cases, people sacrifice their love life at the cost of their profession. This is a bad choice which ruins the whole life. A sensible balance between the two is necessary in order to enjoy life in its entirety. Do not deprive yourself of the love you need.

People part their ways after living together for years and years. Though this looks strange but is the obvious result of ignoring the genuine complaints and grievances of the other. Sometimes a sincere apology, gentle touch, or a friendly kiss is enough to put your love life on track. However, when deep differences develop between the two then professional consultation is necessary. Do everything to bring back love to your life, if it is lost.

In order to make the journey of life more exciting and enjoyable, you need a loving and caring person with whom you can share your values, dreams, fantasies, joys and jokes. In difficult times of anxiety, sorrow, distress or loss of near and dear ones this person should stand firm besides you and console you in every possible manner.

Love your life and love the person who is in your life. Keep the flames of love burning to live a great, great love life.
Discuss this article with your loved one and carefully listen what he/she says. This can give you a clue of his/her inner sentiments and the depth of love for you. Also avail this opportunity to renew your love life with a new passion and commitment.

Life without love is just like body without soul.

欲壑难填
物欲横流
这才是现实
人首先是动物,好像大多数动物都是男性拥有好几个配偶,现在总算明白了点为什么男人都是色狼.包括我自己.
社会性决定了人不同于动物.所以，虚伪狡诈真诚善良等等自然产生,起外表下,掩盖不住人自然的欲望.吃,穿,住,行,乐,此起彼伏,对比连连..为了自己活着，也是为了别人活着..
和别人攀比，实际也是为了自己,不就是那点虚荣心吗?打肿脸充胖子也不错，至少外表上是个胖子，先不关内心是不是苦不堪言...这就是面子和实际的问题.
人不经历些苦难自然不知道目前拥有的是什么
和小孩子讲一万遍都不知道我们在说什么
谁都是这么过来的，谁也跑不过这一关,只不过有的人比较聪慧，没有经历到，也能感悟到一部分.有的人就比较愚蠢,事非临头不知退缩...飞蛾扑火,自取其亡.
那岂不是人人都不能逃脱?
所以，才有了愚昧的迷信,给挣扎的灵魂一个点慰藉,一点希望.才有了威逼利诱你的宗教,信我者昌,逆我者亡.党同伐异,大肆杀戮...
这一切，说不过,只有一句话:世界就是这样的，多样性,自然性,人的努力也是自然的规律在起作用,是自然的自我的自然属性决定了人的各个方面..因此痛苦是不能摆脱的.不过你可以选择痛苦的方式..没有痛苦了，人也就不称为人了。