看了楼主的文章觉得楼主是个很上进的人，至少我是这么认为的。
我想你们分手的原因是因为她的成绩不好吧，你努力使她提高自己的成绩，但是你发现你的努力没有效果！感到了绝望。你不能接受一个没有上进心的女孩子，所以在绝望中选择了分手！
不知道说什么，人人都有自己的恋爱标准，有人喜欢对方的漂亮帅气，有人喜欢对方的钱财，有人喜欢对方的温和的性格------，然而你喜欢对方能有一颗宝贵的上进心。
喜欢做什么与不喜欢做什么，这不是什么天生的，没有人生下来就喜欢做什么的。那时候我们都一样，只知道吃饱了不饿。
人活着除了生存，我们还要活得有意义，还要得到社会的承认得到大家的承认，这是本性的问题。
当我们在生活中发现了我们自己能做的比别人好的事情，得到大家的认可时，我们就喜欢上了这件事情！
所以千万不要把我们的失败说成不喜欢，只是因为我们没有做好所以才不喜欢。
仅仅个人观点
Having saw the building lord’s article I think the building lord is the person having desire to advance .At least I think such.
I guess the cause you parted away is that she has a bad achievement,and you have already done great efforts to help her improve her study,but you have felt despaired.
You can not accept a girl who does not have her own career ,so you said to her you are through in a hopeless state.
Everone has his standard about his sweethart ,maybe it is a good looking ,maybe wealth,maybe mild character and so on , however you hope your wife is an able woman.
Liking what to act and what not , it is not innate. When we are born, we are the same only like eating when we are hungry,there is no other things .
Except living , We have a natural instincts we hope our live is waluable,we have contribution to society .
So when we fail in our life we can’t say it’s bacause we dislike doing it, in fact it is bacause you fail doing it then you dislike it.
Only personal viewpoint!
[ 此帖被moliao99在2009-04-30 20:00重新编辑 ]
